Maybe I was going about it all wrong by trying to impress him with the fancy. To continue the streak of an unpoopy poppy I took my Dad to a little local dive we call the Roadhouse (the Minisink is its proper name). From the moment I heard crunchy, dry lemon pepper wings early this morning they were calling my name. My Dad doesn't mind a wing here and there so we threw him the car and went.
Now back in the day my curly haired padre taught me the basics of a little game called pool. I don't think we've been in the same room with a pool table in nearly two decades. It felt like just yesterday. It took only a few seconds and a second request before we were digging for quarters to play. Some of the things we do perplex my Dad because he simply has forgotten about them. I continually have to remind him that he does indeed like a certain food or yes he DOES REALLY know the person that said hello to him earlier. It can be scary but I try to throw a joke in there if only to make myself giggle instead of cry. The first few strokes of the mighty cue stick caused concern. See my Dad is a bit of a hustler when it comes to billiards. He was no professional back in the day but he would raise a few eyebrows as the younger folk tried to see what the old man had in him. I was rusty myself as well. A few hits in and we were the two curly haired goofballs at the table. Maybe I had to remind him that he was solids and I was stripes a few times but he did darn well for himself. His massive hands still got it!
Some sure and steady things did indeed happen: he coughed like mad over the vinegar from the wing sauce, he complained about how loud it was and he reminded me that beer was only ten cents a glass back in his day. He had the extra adventure of a waitress dropping a plate that shattered at his feet and caused quite a jump as well. But as we shared onion rings and sweet potato tots he seemed ok. I know he missed my Mom ordering a pitcher of some light crappy beer because this was just the type of place we would've loved together. Though our table had a vacant chair holding her place I think once again I left him with an evening that felt a little less empty.
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